Paper has it's uses, however...the promise is much more important. If you've decided you are husband and wife there is no reason not to own that position, I feel. [Charles has opinions on marriages and he'd rather take earnest promises than mere names on paper any day.]

I'm glad, then, that you were able to see someone here. [Pregnancy is a physically terrifying thing.] I'm sure he'll take the confirmation with just as much joy. How could he not?