[It is not too much. It is gallant, and Lydia appreciates it. Though as they walk,]

You know once I've got me a little something, if you want to do your thing, talk to your friends, I can manage on my own for a bit. I should say hello to the birthday girl, maybe get a feel for the party. And you have people to say hello to as well, right? Just check on me after a little bit, or I'll come find you. I don't have to anchor you down all night. I'm a big girl.