"Isn't that the same thing?" He is pretty much the same in that respect, though, and because of it he knows he probably doesn't want some cocky idiot tagging along. "If you don't want the personal tour guide, all you have to do is say." But he's kind of hoping he does; he won't admit it, but he's lacking for friends and the new arrivals are as good a place to start as any. He'll even consider working on the approach. Maybe.